My eye kept hurting throughout the night/morning and I was eventually taken from a dream in which my eye was bleeding profusely and I couldn't get to a doctor, by the sound of my phone ringing. So as I attempted to wake from my Benadryl induced coma I saw that it was none other than the girl I've been pursuing. I do my best to shake the sleep from my eyes, clear my throat, and make my brain begin to work via kick-start...
"hello?"
"hi, is this Christy?"
"uh yeah"
"hi this is K******'s ex gf"
"okaay"
"so I hear you've been calling her a lot and asking her out and I really don't think that that is appropriate and I don't approve"
"well I told her what I was doing, and I told her what I was at, I also made sure she knew that I would respect her boundries if she set some, she didn't."
"well I don't think that's appropriate since we are trying to work things out and get back together"
"well if that is the way that she feels then you won't have to be afraid of me trying anymore, you won't have to be afraid of me as a friend..." she cuts me off...
"I aint afraid of no one sheeeiiiit"
"uh ok"
"she doesn't even know I'm calling"
"aah ok" this is making more sense now speaking K's not the kind to sick her ex on a girl coz she's too much of a pussy to reject her herself, doesn't seem like her style....
well anyways that was pretty much the convo, at first I was angry with K thinking she told the ex or wanted the ex to do that, now it just makes me want to try harder.
The way K tells it to me, they'd been dating for around 7 months or so, the girl is 18 and has a 1 year old kid... then out of the blue the now ex calls her tells her she's a waste of time, energy and basically a waste of space in the universe, that she never wants to talk to her again and don't ever call her.... sounds similar to the way I got dumped ny keri, and I know that that is no fun at all, I also know that if right after that happened keri had come back, apologized and promised that she wasn't going to fuck with my head anymore, I'd believe her. Or at least I'd want to believe her so badly that I would act on the hope that it was true rather than the probability....
so the fact that her ex called me means she knew my name, and if K didn't tell her to call me the ex sounds like she is very territorial and she can't be very confident in her place with K if she's calling some random chick she met a week ago because she feels threatened... i mean really now heh...
So I guess while I said I would respect K's boundries, I never said anything about the ex's bourdaries, granted I'm not looking to get my ass kicked or anything but I would like to follow through with this. .. I don't want to seem like I'm tattleing on the ex, and I don't want to insult the ex, I do want to get my point across that until she herself tells me so, I'm not backing off....
fuck...
I sure know how to pick em huh?